February 22, 2009 • 8:59 PM
for real high probable/events near in space or time/trend deviations - think on making a decision for getting things done/how to do using complex details requiring mental strain giving insights.
for abstract/ low probable/distant /trend following/ our identity values, group/others attitude goals now – think on forming an image by making a effortless sparse hypothesis on why to do.
social norm mode drives performance thr feeling of goodwill/satisfaction/personal pride. [nepotism,popularity contests over intelligence,unfair transactions are the downsides]. so pick this to spend your off hours.
market norm mode makes you more goal oreinted but you tend to focus on money you make [shady business dealings, moving workers overseas, ruthlees competition are the downsides] & forget enjoying the flow from learning,relatedness,higher meaning.
Filed under: UNIVERSAL , DECISION, THINKING PATTERNS
January 12, 2009 • 1:37 AM
when we are unhappy, we crib & call that a shit moment.
Instead, without getting entangled in those temporary negative emotions :
- respect the situation to see what insight you can grasp or specific steps to mitigate it.
- isolate that shit,keep patience to let it pass…in the while recall happy moments!
- zoom out for perspective focusing on the goals/passions we want to pursue.
emotional control is not not feeling emotions at all, it is adept handling of feelings to drink life to our fullest of interests.
Filed under: UNIVERSAL , DECISION, FEEL, SENSITIVE
October 2, 2008 • 5:12 PM
Do not ask what to believe in,
- Ask what experience[visual picture] to anticipate of the belief statement. [ Belief should not be configured after an experience back to an already formed belief or merely be connected to any existing beliefs which haven't been experienced].
- Belief should constrain this experience before .i.e. permit or better yet prohibit beforehand any observable [seen/unseen to eyes] sensory experience from happening.
- This experience should fuel further predictions.
- If it isn’t leading to further experiences, then it is time such a belief needs to be abolished.
FROM THE BLOG: OVERCOMING BIAS:Making Beliefs Pay Rent (in Anticipated Experiences)
Filed under: UNIVERSAL , BELIEFS, DECISION
September 28, 2008 • 1:27 PM
Herd unity accepts a person as long as there is no threat to self-defences. It is mere concentration on oneself or other’ self in the group with no aim of empowering.
But a community with a purpose aims at empowering each one while serving a higher cause. Higher purpose gives resolution to learn continuously, while, others are a source for developing our sensitive conscience. This bonding of knowledge & sensitivity gives the satisfaction of a meaningful life.
Filed under: DISCLOSURE, UNIVERSAL , CAUSE, DECISION, DIRECTION, FEEL, PURPOSE, TORCH BEARER
